A person with a strong ego does the opposite. They lose a tournament, and it is no big deal, they will do better next time. They tap to a lower ranked partner and they don’t care, because they learned a valuable lesson. The fragile ego is scared to try new things because they are stressful and difficult. The strong ego does new things until they become easy. The strong ego says, “I am awesome at doing stressful, difficult things.” The strong ego takes risks, fails, and tries again. Don’t leave your ego at the door. Instead, develop your ego through experience and hard work, strengthen it and make it robust and impervious to defeat. Make your ego work for you.