Olympic Gold Medalist Amit Elor Broke Her Silence On Her Father-In-Law Melqui Galvao — 'Teach Your Sons To Respect Women'

When Melqui Galvao was arrested in Manaus on charges involving minors, three statements landed inside a 24-hour window. The charge sheet covered statutory rape of a victim under 14, sexual harassment, threats, and unauthorized access to electronic devices. One came from his son, Mica Galvao. One came from his lifelong protégé, Diogo Reis. One came from his daughter-in-law, Amit Elor.

Elor was an American wrestler, the Paris 2024 Olympic gold medalist at 68kg, and the only person in that trio who wasn't a product of Melqui Galvao's gym, his coaching, or his ecosystem. Her statement was also the only one that didn't hedge.

"Angry and heartbroken," Elor opened. "We must protect athletes, especially minors! And hold people accountable." Then she addressed survivors directly: "To anyone who's experienced sexual abuse in any form, your voice matters. Speak up, we will listen, we will stand with you, and together we can compete for justice and safety." Then she turned, in capitals, to bystanders: "If you witness any misconduct and CHOOSE to STAY SILENT and not report it, you are supporting the abusers!!" Per BJJDoc's April 29 reporting.

Compare that, as the BJJ community had to, with what came from inside the gym.

Mica Galvao, son of the accused and a 2023 IBJJF World Champion at black belt, posted his statement late on April 28. He thanked his father for teaching him the fundamentals and added that he repudiated "any form of harassment or violence against women and children." He did not name his father. He did not name the academy. He did not address the 13-minute audio recording in police evidence in which his father allegedly apologized to a teenager's father, described the contact, and offered gym partnership in Orlando in exchange for not going to law enforcement. Mica's statement was the kind of thing you write when half the team you grew up with is watching what their head coach was recorded saying, and the other half is your family.

Diogo Reis went one step further than Mica in one specific way: he said the words "may justice be done." That was the highest-confidence sentence anyone in the Manaus pipeline had put to the public record. Reis was a lifelong product of that pipeline—a ONE Championship submission grappling champion, a two-time ADCC world champion, and every belt at his waist was tied either by Melqui Galvao or by someone under his program. He did, on May 1, formally announce his departure from BJJ College in a separate statement, saying "the scale of the facts makes it impossible for me to continue with the team." That was a real exit. But it required a week, a 16-minute audio, a charge sheet, and a permanent ban from the IBJJF and CBJJ to land.

Elor needed none of those. She said it on day one.

You could argue the difference was that Elor had nothing to lose. Not a Manaus gym membership. Not a coaching ladder. Not a competition lineage. Not a brother who shared a last name with the accused. That was true. It was also the point. The three closest statements to the case went, in order of distance from the gym: the wrestler said it plain, the lifelong student said the legal-ish thing, and the son named no one. The community got the cleanest condemnation from the only person whose career didn't run through Manaus.

Bystander complicity was the part Elor's statement kept slicing back to, and it mapped cleanly onto the rest of what was now in evidence. Per Yahoo Sports' coverage, three complainants had come forward, including a 17-year-old whose original report opened the case (the alleged incident took place during a competition trip to Italy in February 2026) and another reportedly 12 years old at the time. The IBJJF and CBJJ jointly issued a permanent ban on April 28: Galvao "is permanently banned from their organizations and is strictly prohibited from participating in any events or activities sanctioned by these entities." If convicted on the full Brazilian charge sheet, he faced 15+ years.

The audio was its own bystander problem. The recording had reportedly been handed over by the father of a teenage student, who held it for some period of time before going to police. In it, per BJJDoc, Galvao said, "I'm totally sorry. I couldn't sleep well last night. Because of what I did, I don't think anything can justify my behavior." He then described the alleged contact in graphic detail and, instead of a denial, offered gym partnership in Orlando, US relocation assistance, and other inducements. Galvao's defense team, on May 3, called the matter an "ongoing abuse investigation" and said via attorney Atila Machado that he had an "unblemished professional record" and "remains at the disposal of the competent authorities, trusts in the proper functioning of the institutions, and awaits the full clarification of the facts."

Against that backdrop, Elor's statement refused to leave space for the version of this where the audio was "complicated" or the timeline was "early" or the proper response was "let the process play out." She said the people who saw and stayed quiet were the abuser's allies. That was the framing the Brazilian charge sheet, the IBJJF ban, and the audio recording all supported. It was the framing the BJJ insiders kept softening. And it had to come from a wrestler.

For a sport that talked constantly about hierarchy, lineage, and the bond between coach and student, the order on this case got flipped. The people inside the lineage said the most cautious thing. The person who married into it said the loudest. It wasn't normal that the cleanest piece of moral writing on a BJJ scandal in 2026 came from someone who had, as far as the public record showed, never competed in a single IBJJF tournament. That was the part the community would eventually have to sit with: the call for survivors to come forward, and the call for bystanders to stop providing cover, came from outside the gym.

The wrestler heard the room and said the thing. The lifelong students said the lawyer thing. The son said the family thing. The order mattered.

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Sources

• Mica Galvao, Amit Elor and Diogo Reis Issue Statements Distancing Themselves From Melqui Galvao Amid Arrest Reports — BJJDoc
• Top BJJ coach Melqui Galvao arrested for alleged sexual assault of minors, banned from IBJJF — Yahoo Sports
• Melqui Galvao Allegedly Apologized and Offered Bribe in 13 Minute Audio Given to Police — BJJDoc
• Melqui Galvão Breaks Silence With Statement After Arrest In Ongoing Abuse Investigation — BJJEE